Profit Isn’t a Dirty Word: How to Actually Pay Yourself

Profit. For some entrepreneurs, the word feels uncomfortable—almost taboo. We’ll reinvest in the business, pay our employees, and cover expenses, but when it comes to writing ourselves a paycheck, guilt creeps in. Many owners fear that taking money from their business makes them selfish, greedy, or irresponsible.

But here’s the truth: profit isn’t a dirty word—it’s the fuel your business needs to survive. And paying yourself is not optional; it’s a non-negotiable part of building a sustainable company.

In this comprehensive guide, we’ll break down how to:

  • Shift your mindset around profit

  • Set up financial systems that prioritize paying yourself

  • Create a practical method for owner’s compensation

  • Manage cash flow without guilt or chaos

  • Build a business that works for you, not just one you work for

By the end, you’ll not only know how to pay yourself, but you’ll feel confident that it’s the smartest thing you can do for your business.

The Mindset Shift—Why Paying Yourself Matters

Profit vs. Greed

Society often paints profit as selfish. But profit isn’t greed—it’s sustainability. Without profit, your business will eventually collapse under the weight of expenses, stress, and unpaid bills. Profit is oxygen.

The Danger of the “Martyr Entrepreneur”

Too many small business owners fall into the trap of paying everyone else first and leaving themselves for last. This creates resentment, burnout, and financial instability.

Key takeaway: Paying yourself isn’t stealing from your business; it’s protecting your business by ensuring the owner can survive and thrive.

The Energy of Money

Money is fuel. When you’re constantly depleted, your energy for growth, innovation, and leadership suffers. Paying yourself restores balance and ensures you can show up at your best.

How Much Should You Pay Yourself?

Owner’s Draw vs. Salary

  • Salary: Fixed, predictable payment like an employee. Best for S-Corps or C-Corps.

  • Owner’s Draw: Flexible payments taken from profits. Common for sole proprietors and LLCs.

Industry Standards

Aim for 30–50% of net profits depending on your industry, size, and financial obligations. Use benchmarks from trade associations to guide what’s reasonable.

The Profit First Approach

Mike Michalowicz’s Profit First system flips the formula:

  • Traditional: Sales – Expenses = Profit

  • Profit First: Sales – Profit = Expenses

Set aside profit first—then operate within what’s left.

Setting Up Financial Systems

Separate Business and Personal Accounts

Mixing funds creates chaos. Open dedicated business checking, savings, and owner’s pay accounts.

The 5-Account Method (Profit First Model)

  • Income

  • Profit

  • Owner’s Pay

  • Taxes

  • Operating Expenses

Use Tools That Simplify

  • QuickBooks Online for bookkeeping

  • Gusto for payroll

  • Relay or Novo for multi-account banking

Pro Tip: Automate transfers to your owner’s pay account twice per month.

Cash Flow Management for Consistent Pay

Know Your Break-Even Point

How much do you need to earn to cover all expenses—including your paycheck? Calculate this monthly.

Forecasting Cash Flow

Use rolling 13-week cash flow projections to anticipate dips and plan ahead.

Buffer Savings

Build a 2–3 month reserve fund to ensure you can pay yourself even during slow seasons.

Cutting Inefficiencies to Free Up Profit

Expense Audit

Review expenses quarterly. Cut tools, subscriptions, or services that don’t provide ROI.

Automate and Delegate

Manual tasks waste time and money. Automate bookkeeping, invoicing, and scheduling.

Pricing Review

If you’re underpricing, you’re sabotaging your paycheck. Adjust rates to reflect value.

Taxes and Compliance

Don’t Forget Uncle Sam

Set aside 25–30% of income for taxes. Use a separate tax account so you’re never caught short.

Pay As You Go

If required, make quarterly estimated tax payments.

Work With a Pro

A CPA or tax advisor can help structure pay efficiently and legally, especially if you’re scaling.

Paying Yourself Through Growth Phases

Startup Stage

Pay yourself a modest, consistent amount to build the habit—even if it’s $200/month.

Growth Stage

Increase owner’s pay in proportion to revenue. Add benefits like health insurance or retirement contributions.

Mature Stage

Treat yourself like an executive. Pay competitive compensation, dividends, and retirement savings.

When (and How) to Give Yourself a Raise

Milestone Raises

Tie raises to revenue or profit milestones (e.g., when net profit increases 20%, raise your pay 5%).

Cost of Living Adjustments

Don’t forget inflation. Review annually to ensure your pay keeps up with real-world costs.

Bonus Pools

Create a profit-sharing system that rewards both you and your team when the company wins.

Avoiding Common Pitfalls

Paying Yourself Too Little

Leads to personal financial stress, debt, and eventual resentment toward the business.

Paying Yourself Too Much

Starves the business of needed cash. Balance is key.

Ignoring Taxes

Forgetting to set aside tax money can cause financial disaster.

Building Wealth Beyond the Business

Retirement Savings

Use a SEP IRA, Solo 401(k), or SIMPLE IRA.

Emergency Fund

Keep personal and business reserves separate.

Diversified Income Streams

Don’t rely solely on your business. Consider investments, rental income, or side projects.

Pay Yourself Without Guilt

Paying yourself is not just fair—it’s strategic. Profit ensures stability, fuels growth, and rewards the person who built the business in the first place: you.

With the right systems, mindset, and financial discipline, you can:

  • Eliminate guilt

  • Build wealth

  • Run a business that supports your life—not the other way around

Remember: Profit isn’t a dirty word. It’s proof that your business works—and that you’re worth it.

Disclaimer:
This Q&A does not constitute legal, accounting, or tax advice and does not address state or local law.


Fueling revenue, growth and profit, Salsbury & Co. is a consultancy firm focused on helping businesses and healthcare organizations achieve excellency. Our specialists have executive experience combined with deep functional expertise to provide our clients with services that drive real impact and results.

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April Salsbury

April Salsbury, MBA is a strategist, an analyst, an operational guru, a recognized leader and C-suite global healthcare executive with drive and focus for competitive markets. Co-host of The Business Forum Show and regular contributor to various business journals, she possess multi-functional and multi-national competencies with more than 20 years experience in business and healthcare. Her expertise is in invigorating revenue growth and infusing value of lean practices in growing companies through improvements to cash flow and operations management.

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